Entries by Lindy James

Interview – Wisdom of the Body is Calling You

I had a lot of fun during this interview and I hope it holds an unexpected gift for you and your journey.   *Click HERE to listen*    Topics discussed include: Setting boundaries – how to be respectful to yourself Healing power of touch Tantra as an exciting solution for aging sexuality Spirituality of Tantra And much […]

My Tantric Opening

When I was younger, I had reason to disengage or distance myself from my internal body wisdom.  Let’s just say that the way things went, I became less connected to my s£xual center.  I became cut off from feeling pleasure in most of my body.  Nature and horses became my source of goodness and joy. In my […]

Re-Spark Your Sensuality

Do you love each other but you’re not making love enough to bring on that radiant spark? Do you find yourself feeling flat and not sensual these days? Are you interested in deeper intimacy in your life? Here are healing practices to bring back the spark and add more sensuality to your everyday life. I […]

Permission as a Way of Life

My website says, “Welcome to the Permission Zone!”  This concept came from a particular time in my life in the mid 90s when I started to realize the magic that can happen when openness and love are paired with boundaries and clear communication.  So many of us believe that if we are truly ourselves, we will lose love and […]

How Can We Experience the Field of Love?

Tantra teaches us to create a sacred container where the field of Love can blossom. How do we get there? This experience comes naturally when we feel safe to open and relax. Boundaries: We can learn to have clear boundaries and agreements around how we share closeness.  First, we speak up and say what we need […]

Audio – Tantra for Better Living

Lindy was a guest on The Better Sex Podcast ~ Unfiltered Conversations, hosted by Deborah Kat to share words of wisdom, caution and encouragement to support you in Better Sex. You can listen to the entire episode below. Topics Discussed How to keep the “spark” alive in relationships The importance (and sexiness) of setting boundaries […]

Tantra is Healing

I’ve said before that I see Tantra as a spiritual path to awaken to our own true nature.  Tantra is considered a yoga, a union.  For me, it’s a union with my own divinity and a reflection of the divine. On the path of awakening, there is healing that naturally happens.  It’s powerful for me to watch my […]

Learning How To Truly Make Love

My First Tantra Steps: As I shared in my last article about Tantra Myths, at my first Tantra training, I was 34 years old, and terrified. I judged myself as not Tantra material and almost didn’t attend.  But the inspiring results of a dear friend, whose transformations continued to grow even months after her training, had me […]

3 Myths of Tantra

In my experience, there is often confusion around the topic of Tantra.  Misconceptions cloud up what Tantra is, and could be. At my first Tantra training, I was 34 years old, and terrified. I had preconceived ideas about Tantra, and I certainly didn’t fit that mold.  Luckily, though, in the back of my mind, I had […]

Wisdom of the Body is Calling You

In the beginning of learning to feel energy, most of us (myself included) don’t feel a thing.  I’m sure we had the ability to feel more when we were little.  But as we started to feel overloaded in life, we turned off certain sensory perceptions to be more comfortable.  When tuning out, it’s hard to be […]