Lindy – Sacred Intimate and Tantric Educator

There’s a part of you that already knows
how to live fully alive.

Lindy has spent over two decades guiding individuals, couples, and groups into deeper intimacy — with themselves, with others, and with life itself. She calls this territory the Permission Zone: the space where you give yourself permission to be fully, truly you.

Her approach is spiritual before it is sexual. Tantra, as Lindy teaches it, is a path of awakening — rooted in presence, self-awareness, and the courage to listen to your body’s wisdom.

“Safety is paramount. I go as slow as the slowest part of you can go — always working in mindfulness, always empowering you to be at choice.”

Deep safety

Every student is interviewed before any in-person event. She’s been called a mama bear when it comes to your sense of safety.

Embodied presence

Sessions begin with connecting you to your own inner wisdom — not a technique, but your own felt sense.

Your pace, always

No agenda, no destination. The path unfolds at the speed that’s right for you.

A Little About Her

Lindy was a wild child raised by horses — literally. She began teaching horseback riding at 15 and spent decades learning what horses know instinctively: they respond to your presence, not your performance. That felt truth has shaped everything about how she teaches.

She received her certification as a Tantric Educator through Source Tantra in 2004 and completed the two-year professional training at the Hakomi Institute of San Francisco in 2001. Her work draws from teachers including Daniel Odier, David Deida, and Margot Anand.

“When we begin listening to our bodies, something opens. Sovereignty. Freedom. The river of joy starts flowing.”

Who This Is For

You might be someone who has always lived a little outside the box. Or someone who has played it safe for so long that you’ve lost touch with what you actually want. Either way — if something in you is ripe for change, Lindy would love to meet you there.


Lindy sees clients in her beautiful home office near Santa Cruz and online.

I have had the privilege of working with Lindy for many years. I experience Lindy to be insightful, kind, patient, perceptive, grounded, attentive, gracious and professional, all at the same time. Her ability to touch my soul and help me into a new depth of understanding is amazing.

I came to her to help with my body image and compulsive eating and that my dissatisfaction was deeper than simply to lose weight. My body and my mind were in a state of disconnect. Through Lindy’s help I have been able to connect myself as a whole individual. With Lindy I have been able to connect my body and my emotions. I have become so much more understanding and gentle with myself and others.

In our first sessions I would ‘spin.’ I am now grounded and mindful and can be present for myself in the moment. I have discovered the value of paying attention to my body and thoughts. I feel so much more of my own person now vs. reacting to others. Lindy has taught me how to pay attention to myself and feel the love for my child within.

I recommend her most highly as a therapist and teacher and I have the highest respect for her integrity and skills.

Lindy is a powerful woman, an inspirational leader and an intuitive guide. She creates a space of absolute love and permission to explore, to find your yes and your no, to listen to your heart, be present in your body and true to yourself. She has a way of knowing where the group, and the individuals in the group, are in our experience, and just what to say or do at just the right moment to give rise to insight and expansion. I love her events and try not to miss any of them!

For me Lindy’s introductory Tantra class served as a comfortable place to expand into relaxed intimacy with other interested explorers. She provides gentle instruction as we engage in numerous exercises. It is a safe, pressure free experience that has allowed me to practice staying in-tune to myself as I communicate and interact. I have experienced only positive growth while working with Lindy and I recommend it for everyone!