Entries by Lindy James

Audio – Tantra for Better Living

Lindy was a guest on The Better Sex Podcast ~ Unfiltered Conversations, hosted by Deborah Kat to share words of wisdom, caution and encouragement to support you in Better Sex. You can listen to the entire episode below. Topics Discussed How to keep the “spark” alive in relationships The importance (and sexiness) of setting boundaries […]

Tantra is Healing

I’ve said before that I see Tantra as a spiritual path to awaken to our own true nature.  Tantra is considered a yoga, a union.  For me, it’s a union with my own divinity and a reflection of the divine. On the path of awakening, there is healing that naturally happens.  It’s powerful for me to watch my […]

Learning How To Truly Make Love

My First Tantra Steps: As I shared in my last article about Tantra Myths, at my first Tantra training, I was 34 years old, and terrified. I judged myself as not Tantra material and almost didn’t attend.  But the inspiring results of a dear friend, whose transformations continued to grow even months after her training, had me […]

3 Myths of Tantra

In my experience, there is often confusion around the topic of Tantra.  Misconceptions cloud up what Tantra is, and could be. At my first Tantra training, I was 34 years old, and terrified. I had preconceived ideas about Tantra, and I certainly didn’t fit that mold.  Luckily, though, in the back of my mind, I had […]

Wisdom of the Body is Calling You

In the beginning of learning to feel energy, most of us (myself included) don’t feel a thing.  I’m sure we had the ability to feel more when we were little.  But as we started to feel overloaded in life, we turned off certain sensory perceptions to be more comfortable.  When tuning out, it’s hard to be […]

Self-Care: is it a luxury!? Or a necessity?

People’s responses to the concept of self-care often exist on a spectrum.  When self-care is seen as a luxury, it’s often judged as being selfish.  If we aren’t getting sh*t done, we are wasting time on something that’s not important.  From another view, filling every minute of every day can be an exhausting habit.  The self-care […]

Holding the Love and Navigating the Holidays

Holidays are upon us. A mixture of emotions : perhaps joy, magic, confusion. Plus, a pandemic is still in the air…potentially polarizing friends, family and communities. There’s been deep conflict on and off throughout history.  Personally, I’ve become more aware of politics in the last 4-5 years than ever before.  I’ve witnessed how anyone can find […]

How It’s Supposed To Be

We are naturally creatures of connection.  We need touch.  Touch is a part of our health and well being.  Even before the added caution and scarcity of covid, the simple request of asking, “Can you put your arms around me?” may seem foreign and scary. A few years ago, I was talking to a friend of […]

Song 🎵 for an Open Heart

  Hello dear ones, In these times of uncertainty, numbers are going up and down…Can we take our masks off?  Do we have to stay indoors?  Is the variant coming around the corner? We need our center more than ever to put one foot in front of the other and to keep our hearts open.  […]

The Felt Sense: A practice for opening to inner wisdom & peace

I want to start with the invitation to take a deep breath, and a slower exhale. *** Breathe IN *** ******** Breathe OUT ******** Shift from Thinking to Feeling: How does it feel, this breath and this slowing down? Feel the movement of air as you breathe into the nostrils, as the chest expands, and the […]