Heart-Centered Intermediate Tantra Puja | 11/16/2019

‘Heart-Centered Intermediate Tantra Puja’ in Santa Rosa, CA
with Lindy James, co-led with Connie Wisesan

Saturday, November 16th from 1:00 pm – 8:30 pm

Tantra is a magical connection to deeper intimacy and a spiritual path in union with the divine.

Following in the tradition of Evalena Rose, and with her blessings, Lindy will continue with our big Pujas in Santa Rosa.  We will gather together this day to share Sacred Sensuality in a deeply fulfilling community of beautiful beings on the path of heart opening connection and respect.

We will Enjoy Tantric practices and dance in the light of beautiful diverse human expression, satisfying intimacy, playful interactions with old and new friends.

“Thank you for the perfect space, your loving facilitation, and the beautiful beings you gathered. It was exactly what I had longed for and needed: safe and opening. I left utterly grateful and deeply recharged.”

  • All genders, orientations, singles and couples, all expressions welcome.
  • We start with creating the sacred container opening our hearts together as we open to divine connection with each other.
  • New people are welcomed with open arms.
  • Our lovely team of assistants will be there to support you and offer loving guidance.
  • No explicit sexual activity is ever required or suggested


These Pujas are for people with some experience with sacred sexuality teachings and have clarity around boundaries both through respecting others and their own.

Schedule and Arrival:

  • Doors open at 12:30 beginning at 1pm, please arrive no later than 12:45 pm
  • We will start with a beautiful circle and then have a break to set up stations
  • Dinner will be around 5pm-ish
  • Finish at around 8:30pm

Preparing for this event:

  • Please have a light meal before you come, dinner is early evening.
  • Please bring a floor cover(small rug or blanket), back-jack and zafu if you have them.
  • Please bring a water bottle and mug with lid for tea. There will be no open containers in the temple room.
  • Snacks, tea and water are included.
  • Please bring a dish to share for the potluck dinner.

Registration, Payment and Confirmation:

Space is limited; please pay in advance to save your spot. Cost of $125 includes snacks, tea and water. Confirmation with instructions, location and directions will be sent out the week before the event.

  1. Please send me a check to Lindy James for $125 to: PO Box 1942, Aptos  95001
    Or pay $127 online through PayPal.  *Note the date of event in Pay Pal!
  2. Please email me (lindy@lindyjames.com) when you have signed up either with Pay Pal or check.
  3. A confirmation letter will be sent the week before event and after payment has been received.

Refunds:  Payment is refundable up to 5 days before the event, after that only if there is someone to take your place.


Tantra as a Sacred Path

Tantra as a Sacred Path
At The Center for World Networking
Monday November 27th 7:30-9:00PM
$5.00-$15.00 Sliding Scale


Learn the basics of Tantra in a safe container.

Learn the art of: conscious connecting, satisfying intimacy, playful interactions with simple exercises to take us there. Boundaries and individual pace are fully encouraged and respected. Sacred sexuality starts with slowing down and arriving in the present moment with beginners mind. Through embodiment meditation, learn the basic information about Tantra and simple exercises to experience a new level of intimacy. No previous experience required. Presented by Lindy James, certified Tantric educator, intimacy coach and Counselor.

Winter Solstice Retreat

NEW! Winter Solstice Retreat! Dec, 20th-23rd

Stepping into winter Solstice, the time of stillness and hibernation, we are creating our own ‘Holy Days’ by slowing down in this beautiful winter retreat. It is our longing to relax together into the nourishing Stillness.

Each day will have periods of moving meditation, sitting meditation, dharma talks,
Qi Gong and sacred sexuality talks and more. How does life move through us in this beautiful dance of aliveness? How can we ignite and meet our true, Buddha nature?

On Friday there will be a silent Tea ceremony with Frederick Ballario. He has just returned from Thailand deepening his teachings with tea. I (Lindy) have experienced the ceremony twice with Frederick and I love the stillness and the mastery that he brings to create a magical awareness in the body mind and spirit. The tea is often mild, but those of you that are completely caffeine free might sit and watch instead of participating. There is a maximum number for this ceremony of 15.

Qi gong, led by Rachel Van Dessel, opens and clears the energies in our body and connect us with our sensual nature.  Rachel is a delightful, playful and beautifully awake Qi gong teacher and Buddhist. There’s clarity in her teaching that makes the movement very easy to follow.
There will be the option of some overnights at the house and possibly five minutes away at a friend’s house and if you prefer a hotel there is a Best Western/Seacliff Inn in Aptos only eight minutes away.

It is so lovely for us all to be together. The meals will be lunch and dinner potluck. You can also bring something for yourself and eat with us.  We are five minutes drive to the ocean.

Each day has three sessions. You have the option to come to an individual session, an entire day, or all three days.

Price per day….$60-$75 sliding scale
Price per session….$15-$35 sliding scale
no one turned away for lack of funds.
Some work trade available please inquire.
See daily schedule attached or below
We are looking forward to seeing you on the 20th!

Winter Solstice retreat Schedule:
Wednesday 20th:

10-12 Tandava Moving & sitting meditation with Marlies & Lindy
12-2 break for lunch
2-4 Qigong with Rachel Van Dessel
4-7 Dinner and free time
7-9 Satsang with Marlies

Thursday 21st:
10-12 Tandava
12-2 break for lunch
2-4 Sacred Sexuality Talk with Lindy, Rachel & Marlies
4-7 Dinner and free time
7-9 Winter Solstice Ritual Lindy, Marlies, Rachel

Friday 22nd :
10-12 Qigong
12-2 Break for Lunch
2-4:30 Tea Ceremony with Frederic
4:30-7 Dinner and free time
7-9 Qi Gong and sexual energy with Rachel and Lindy

Saturday 23rd :
10-12 Tandava
12-2 Break for Lunch
2-4 Satsang with Marlies
4-7 Dinner and free time
7-10 Tantra Puja with Lindy and Marlies

Free Time, cuddle time, walk on beach, Dokusan with Marlies nap as you please.

Friday Feels Younger Adult’s intro to Tantra

What is Sacred Sexuality?

Friday Feels is an introduction to Tantra for ages 18-35.

Learn the Basics of Tantra in a safe container, Learn the Art of conscious connecting, satisfying intimacy, and playful interactions, with simple exercises to take us there. Boundaries and individual pace are fully encouraged and respected. No previous experienced required. Both singles and couples welcome.

Cost $25 space is limited: Please pay in advance to save your spot.

Pay $27 through PayPal donate button in the footer. INDICATE EVENT DATE, then email Lindy to confirm. you will receive directions in the week prier to event. Or contact Lindy if you wish to pay cash at the door.

Arrive 7 pm beginning at 7:30 ending at 10 pm.

Please plan to bring a healthy snack to share (this is not dinner)

All Questions welcome , Lindy@lindyjames.com 831-662-3768




Circle of Radiance Puja

A playful day of sharing connection, food and ritual with experienced dakinis. Our ecstatic and sacred Puja led by Evalena Rose and Lindy James or Fred Burks extends into the evening, includes a ritual meal, and allows ample space for lovely ecstatic practices. Stay after to enjoy the fruits of a long and luscious puja.

♥ A day of being nurtured in the temple of love
♥ Breathe your way into heart-filled delights
♥ Explore the fullness of connecting sensually
♥ Dance, worship & cavort with fellow Divine beings
♥ Practicing mutual honor, respect, and safety
♥ Hone your Tantric skills and nourish new heart connections
♥ Our deepening bonds bring healing to us all

“Rarely have I reached feeling so completely present, loving and loved, accepting and accepted, deeply connected and at peace with new people in such a short time. Very profound and moving.” ~ J. C.

Designed for sensitive men and women who’ve studied Tantra. Our Puja may include more women than men to accommodate women who prefer women partners. Same gender couples welcome.

1 pm: Registration and greeting our community
1:30 pm: Heart-centered connecting, opening to joy, demos of boundaries and respect
3:30 pm: Prepare for Puja (dress in fun or alluring adornment you bring)
4 – 9:30 pm: PUJA, dinner included
9:30 pm: Sensual Feast, snuggles, Afterglow into wee hours.
Bask in the post-puja sweetness. Enjoy hot tubs.

“Evalena’s ability to create sacred space opens doorways to the Divine. Ecstatic, this Puja opened my heart to merging with the Beloved with every one there.” ~R. D.

$125 Per Person if paid 10 days before ($150 after)
$225 Per Couple if paid 10 days before ($250 after)
$75 deposit due 10 days before the Puja, non-refundable after.
Work exchange, scholarships available

Register online or call 707-824-1117.

Location: Sebastopol, CA. Address and directions sent 1 week prior.

Lodging available or contact us for a list of local area accommodations.

Want to bring someone new to Tantra? A person trained in Tantra might be able to bring a beloved new to Tantra. Call 707-824-1117 to talk to Evalena about that possibility and how to prepare them to participate. An Introductory Evening is held the Friday night before the puja for them to learn more about the breath practices and the nature of Tantra. They gain greater comfort in being in sacred space and we gain safer playing grounds as they join us in holding healthy boundaries.

“Favorite puja of all-time! The men were really spiritually informed & ready to worship the Goddess.” N. D.

“Thrilling and wonderful – changed my life to go to your Puja.” P. U.

“A wonderful event with a lovely balance between the sacredness of connection in heart and spirit and the delicious delights of playful sensuality.”

“To be in the presence of the wonderful beings you gather is truly a joy! I felt honored, appreciated, sensual, sexy and loved. Wow!! Your Pujas feed me, nourish me and fill me up.” C. L.

Want more Tantra in your Life?

Yoga practices like Tantra work their magic of transformation more with repetition. Returning to the Six Month Group helps deepen your practice of sacred intimacy and ecstatic connection. Those who’ve studied with us for years find it refines their orgasmic potential as they grow in self-love, steeped in this compassionate community.

Returning to Introductory Evenings helps you establish the practices in your body and refine your undulatory practices. Experienced people come for free, as your presence is a gift to new people.

“A very delightful, tender & amazing experience. I felt remarkably present & wholly in the moment all day.”

“I felt so taken care of – a beautiful sensual experience. So tantric, so totally in the now, so personal, deeply healing.” J. K.

For more information click here: Puja